Over the past few years, guys having a 'side chick', 'roll on' or 'small house' has reached an all time high, while...
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Over the past few years, guys having a 'side chick', 'roll on' or 'small house' has reached an all time high, while some are elevated for their 'adventures' - there are even songs, movies - and even books about being the other woman.
Men are a lot more clever and underhanded in their tactics - they know how to keep their girlfriends and their side pieces separate. Also, being a side chick is no longer an embarrassment to some women, which gives men more reason to have one.
Here are a few signs that he’s actually in a relationship with someone else.
He buys you staff to keep you happy
Hush gifts are things he buys for you when you start talking about serious things, like moving in together, committing or spending time with his family - and an argument sparks.
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Because he wants to keep you as his side chick - he locates your material weakness and plays on that to stray you away from the serious topics and also to keep you around.
He seems completely disconnected when you get emotional with him
When women date, they anticipate the time in their relationships when they fall for the guy and can tell him how they feel. However, if you open up to your man and tell him how you feel repeatedly and he doesn’t reciprocate and/or tries to downplay the entire topic.
This could be a sign that his heart lies elsewhere.
You’re never invited to stay the night after se_x
As couples get more comfortable with each other, they tend to stay over at one another’s place after se_x. However, if he leaves your apartment in the middle of the night, or makes sure you never stay over at his place.
You’re never invited to stay the night after se_x
As couples get more comfortable with each other, they tend to stay over at one another’s place after se_x. However, if he leaves your apartment in the middle of the night, or makes sure you never stay over at his place.
This is a definite red flag. Also, keep in mind, if he has a family or “main chick”, staying until dawn will never be an option.
He refuses to show affection in public
PDA should never be an issue in any relationship, so long as it’s within reason. But if you go to grab his hand and he pulls his away, or you never kiss or get too close when you’re out together, this could be a sign that you’re a side chick.
This also gives him room to lie to his “main chick” about who you are if you two happen to be seen.
He dodges every photo opportunity
Everyone is on Facebook and Instagram posting their food, kids, and significant others. Snapchat and Oovoo also make every day a motion picture production. So if you notice that your guy is dodging selfies like bullets whenever you tilt your phone to take a picture, you may be a side chick.
You have a 'secret spot' that he tries to play off as romantic
Every couple has a favorite spot to eat or hang out. However, if he choses to always take you miles outside of the city or to venues with very little traffic, it’s a possibility he’s trying to be discreet about being out with you, without letting you know.
He always wants to meet late at night
If you only meet after dark or after reasonable date hours, such as 11pm or later, chances are he has another life that he leads – the hours prior to those late night “booty call” hours.
He prefers to stay in when you’re together
If your guy always strays away from going out or always wants to just come to your place to hang out, this is a major side chick indicator. There’s a difference between a guy being a homebody and trying to be sneaky with your relationship.
He dodges every photo opportunity
Everyone is on Facebook and Instagram posting their food, kids, and significant others. Snapchat and Oovoo also make every day a motion picture production. So if you notice that your guy is dodging selfies like bullets whenever you tilt your phone to take a picture, you may be a side chick.
You have a 'secret spot' that he tries to play off as romantic
Every couple has a favorite spot to eat or hang out. However, if he choses to always take you miles outside of the city or to venues with very little traffic, it’s a possibility he’s trying to be discreet about being out with you, without letting you know.
He always wants to meet late at night
If you only meet after dark or after reasonable date hours, such as 11pm or later, chances are he has another life that he leads – the hours prior to those late night “booty call” hours.
He prefers to stay in when you’re together
If your guy always strays away from going out or always wants to just come to your place to hang out, this is a major side chick indicator. There’s a difference between a guy being a homebody and trying to be sneaky with your relationship.
Every couple has dinner at restaurants or goes on movie dates from time to time.
You’re never invited to family gatherings
If you have never met a guy’s parents and children or haven’t been to any events that include his friends, this is another side chick indicator.
He has to go suddenly whenever you’re on the phone
When you speak to your guy on the phone, if he speaks to you in a very formal tone without even addressing you by name more often than not, that’s a definite sign you are a side chick. If he’s always gotta go suddenly or straight up hangs up on you out of nowhere from time to time.
That’s probably because his actual girlfriend got home. - Online Sources
You’re never invited to family gatherings
If you have never met a guy’s parents and children or haven’t been to any events that include his friends, this is another side chick indicator.
He has to go suddenly whenever you’re on the phone
When you speak to your guy on the phone, if he speaks to you in a very formal tone without even addressing you by name more often than not, that’s a definite sign you are a side chick. If he’s always gotta go suddenly or straight up hangs up on you out of nowhere from time to time.
That’s probably because his actual girlfriend got home. - Online Sources
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